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Writer's pictureBrian "Bobblehead" Herbert

🌟💪🎯 Mental Toughness and Resilience: A Journey Through Life and Darts 🌟💪🎯

Tonight, I want to take a moment to recognize and applaud the incredible mental toughness and strength exhibited by my dear friend Frank Tocco, as well as all those who are facing personal struggles and adversity. 💪

Frank has been confronted with an unimaginable challenge, diagnosed with a rare form of cancer known as Chordoma of the spine and sacrum. Enduring not one, but two extensive surgeries, lasting a staggering total of 25 hours and involving 14 skilled surgeons, his journey has been nothing short of inspiring. 😲❤️

Throughout it all, what continues to amaze me is Frank's unwavering attitude, his unyielding perseverance, and his determination to conquer this battle. But then again, it's Frank—his resilience is simply who he is! 🙌💪

To you, my friend, I send all my thoughts and prayers. Believe me when I say that you will be walking your beautiful daughter down the aisle and celebrating many more joyous moments. Your strength shines brightly, illuminating the path ahead. 💛✨


In life, as in darts, we often encounter losses and face challenges that test our mental fortitude. We've experienced our fair share of losses within the DPFL Darts family, with the passing of cherished individuals like Albert Sr Guidroz and Willie Harris, among others. During these times, it's crucial that we come together, offering support, compassion, and a listening ear. 🤝💔

We must remember that everyone has their own unique story, their own battles to fight. It's easy to make assumptions or rush to judgment, but let's strive to be kind, empathetic, and understanding. You never truly know the weight someone is carrying, so let's be a shoulder to lean on and an empathetic presence in their lives. ❤️👂

As a darts player and an observer of this wonderful game, I've come to appreciate the mental toughness required to excel on the oche. Interestingly, life and darts share remarkable similarities when you stop and think about it. 🤔

Just like in life, darts can feel like a prolonged chess match. There are moments of challenge, times when it feels difficult, and even instances when giving up might seem tempting. But we must remember to push through, to tap into our inner strength. Know yourself, understand your capabilities, and remember that you are strong, both on and off the dartboard! 💪🎯

So, here's to mental toughness, resilience, and the power of the human spirit. Let us celebrate the indomitable spirit of Frank and all those facing their own battles, reminding ourselves that we have the strength to overcome any obstacle that life throws our way. Together, we can conquer the challenges and emerge stronger than ever before. 🌟💪❤️

For more information regarding Chordoma please check out the Chordoma Foundation https://www.chordomafoundation.org/ Check out the SAMHSA for Mental Health Information https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline Stay strong Frankie and All!! Your Friend Brian Herbert


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Unknown member
Jun 30, 2023

Great job Herbert buddy, darts is not always about darts, we all go through something in our life with friends and family. Frankie bud keep going strong buddy you will be up on the go in no time.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BUDDY


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Guest
Jun 30, 2023

You got this Frankie!! Keep pushing through!!

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Guest
Jun 30, 2023

We pray for you every night Frankie! ❤️

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Guest
Jun 30, 2023

So well written and a joy to read. The message is a necessity for all. All the best wishes to Frankie. Stay strong. A positive outlook is EVERYTHING. The Kettinger’s are pulling for you.

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Lisa Eimer
Jun 30, 2023

Beautifully written Brian. Compassion for others is the key. Just because someone may have a smile on their face doesn’t mean they aren’t facing their own problems. I hope and pray your friend comes through stronger and healthier. 💙

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